"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheGambino

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snapchat....

I got All my plates exs and backburners on my list. They check me out

Do You Guys send selfies to backburners?

You nc so she reaches out, that You level out interest. But would You send gym selfies and so to those girls that dont reach out nor send selfies themselves. And to plates in between dates that you are playing the waiting game on? Is that attention?

Enlighten me
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dude99

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snapchat....

I got All my plates exs and backburners on my list. They check me out

Do You Guys send selfies to backburners?

You nc so she reaches out, that You level out interest. But would You send gym selfies and so to those girls that dont reach out nor send selfies themselves. And to plates in between dates that you are playing the waiting game on? Is that attention?

Enlighten me
Honest question here. Why would you want to send selfies to the girls who are not interacting with you?
 

marmel75

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I tried snapchat for a day...most annoying app I've ever used...deleted immediately.
 

Urbanyst

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F*ck Snapchat.

If a woman is not physically within f*cking distance I'm not interested in mentally masturbating with technology. Its goofy to me. Come to my apartment and we can do it for real. Otherwise, I have more important things to do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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beforeimgone

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snapchat....

I got All my plates exs and backburners on my list. They check me out

Do You Guys send selfies to backburners?

You nc so she reaches out, that You level out interest. But would You send gym selfies and so to those girls that dont reach out nor send selfies themselves. And to plates in between dates that you are playing the waiting game on? Is that attention?

Enlighten me
I don't use snapchat. I like to control what medium women have access to me
 

Von

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snapchat....

I got All my plates exs and backburners on my list. They check me out

Do You Guys send selfies to backburners?

You nc so she reaches out, that You level out interest. But would You send gym selfies and so to those girls that dont reach out nor send selfies themselves. And to plates in between dates that you are playing the waiting game on? Is that attention?

Enlighten me
You likely gonna lose your value if you communicate for most of them

However, i'll go against the tide....

PS: I don't know how snapchat work but it should be like facebook?

If you know she looking at you... send her a message to meet it or reinitiate a contact (cause she has an interest thus a potential)

Likely 1 to 5% will come back to you.... than you'll get laid

10% likely will be friendly and no lay

40% will reply and no go

the rest will be goner

Delete everyone who doesn't agree to go on a date... their ego will be bruised and they will likely spam you for attention.

Go on the dates, and move on in NC for all the rest

Alot of girls who I wanted to lay, who just wanted friendship after a while... when they come back on my social media (like-post), I invite them to some event and always say yes.... events are usually friend gathering... she'll see social value and from there you move on to the lay or NC her
 

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i use snapchat ONLY. its my one social media. I use it instead of texting etc. You can do everything on it..send pics/vids/call/msg/send vids etc. on top of that you can get social proof by putting up snap stories of interesting stuff your doing. plus its the easiest form of communication because every female is on it.
 

LimaBean

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i use snapchat ONLY. its my one social media. I use it instead of texting etc. You can do everything on it..send pics/vids/call/msg/send vids etc. on top of that you can get social proof by putting up snap stories of interesting stuff your doing. plus its the easiest form of communication because every female is on it.
This. I use it for social proof. It's way more nonchalant than any other mode of social media. I typically don't snap women directly, but they certainly see how much fun your having and want to join in.
 
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