Guy getting called "sassy" by a girl

[BigSmooth]

I was at my fraternity tailgate this past weekend before our college football game just chilling and having a relaxed time. There were many girls there pre-gaming with us and I saw a group of three girls I have never seen before so I approached them and started chatting them up, showing a little intent but was mostly just being friendly and teasing them occasionally.

I continued to talk to them for about 10 more minutes then excused myself to check up on some tailgate logistics. I then proceeded to walk around and I see one of the girls from earlier standing alone so I went up to her and proceeded to flirt and exude my true personality. We were vibeing well and then at some point while I was teasing her by making fun of something she said, she told me I was sassy/I had some sass in a semi-flirty way.

Now I have never, ever had a girl say this to me and I can say that I am a fairly successful guy with ladies (if anyone has read some of my advice posts...although I do acknowledge I still have a lot to learn!) and I was just flabbergasted with this.

I don't even know if this is a good thing or a bad thing. What would being sassy as a guy actually mean? Has anyone else ever had a girl say this to you?



No I am not homosexual or metrosexual or a feminine guy by the way for any trolls.

 

[perseverance]

What on earth does 'sassy' even mean?

 

[BigSmooth]

What on earth does 'sassy' even mean?

That is exactly what I am wondering.

 

[perseverance]

According to Urban Dictionary

Sassy means "possessing the attitude of someone endowed with an ungodly amount of cool." http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=sassy

Not a bad compliment in all honesty!

 

[Who Dares Win]

sas·sy 1 (ss)
adj. sas·si·er, sas·si·est
1. Rude and disrespectful; impudent.
2. Lively and spirited; jaunty.
3. Stylish; chic: a sassy little hat.

 

[BigSmooth]

According to Urban Dictionary

Sassy means "possessing the attitude of someone endowed with an ungodly amount of cool." http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=sassy

Not a bad compliment in all honesty!

Haha well I'll take it. Always knew I was "sassy". :woo:

sas·sy 1 (ss)
adj. sas·si·er, sas·si·est
1. Rude and disrespectful; impudent.
2. Lively and spirited; jaunty.
3. Stylish; chic: a sassy little hat.

I've heard girls/women describe other girls/women as sassy and I'm guessing they mean mostly definitions #1 and 3, with a little of 2.

I like to think I'm definition of #2. Haha.

 

[FairShake]

Usually means ball breaking in a gay way.

Probably her way of busting your balls about busting her's.

Looks like she got you!

 

[BigSmooth]

Usually means ball breaking in a gay way.

Probably her way of busting your balls about busting her's.

Looks like she got you!

Yeah she got me there because I had nothing witty to say back to her at that time.

I personally love girls who know how to actually tease back properly and bust on people's balls (talking in a non-sexual way right now ).

It gives me a stir in my loins.

 

[Mike32ct]

It means playfully sarcastic or ball busting or sort of feisty.

But it's usually a term used for females. It's almost never used to describe a guy.

Notwithstanding, I don't think it's anything to worry about. She's not suggesting you are gay. I think she's just being playful and/or didn't use the right word. You did fine game-wise. If anything, it's an IOI.

 

[The Gambler]

I was at my fraternity tailgate this past weekend before our college football game just chilling and having a relaxed time. There were many girls there pre-gaming with us and I saw a group of three girls I have never seen before so I approached them and started chatting them up, showing a little intent but was mostly just being friendly and teasing them occasionally.

I continued to talk to them for about 10 more minutes then excused myself to check up on some tailgate logistics. I then proceeded to walk around and I see one of the girls from earlier standing alone so I went up to her and proceeded to flirt and exude my true personality. We were vibeing well and then at some point while I was teasing her by making fun of something she said, she told me I was sassy/I had some sass in a semi-flirty way.

Now I have never, ever had a girl say this to me and I can say that I am a fairly successful guy with ladies (if anyone has read some of my advice posts...although I do acknowledge I still have a lot to learn!) and I was just flabbergasted with this.

I don't even know if this is a good thing or a bad thing. What would being sassy as a guy actually mean? Has anyone else ever had a girl say this to you?



No I am not homosexual or metrosexual or a feminine guy by the way for any trolls.

She's used to guys orbiting and kissing her ass.

You didn't.

Great job.

The Gambler

 

[Cremasta]

I wouldn't worry too much about that one.

She'd obviously just learned a new word and couldn't wait to use it in conversation.

 

[Atom Smasher]

It means you are perceived as bold and witty. It's a good thing. Men don't use that word, but that's what she means.