I was at my fraternity tailgate this past weekend before our college football game just chilling and having a relaxed time. There were many girls there pre-gaming with us and I saw a group of three girls I have never seen before so I approached them and started chatting them up, showing a little intent but was mostly just being friendly and teasing them occasionally.
I continued to talk to them for about 10 more minutes then excused myself to check up on some tailgate logistics. I then proceeded to walk around and I see one of the girls from earlier standing alone so I went up to her and proceeded to flirt and exude my true personality. We were vibeing well and then at some point while I was teasing her by making fun of something she said, she told me I was sassy/I had some sass in a semi-flirty way.
Now I have never, ever had a girl say this to me and I can say that I am a fairly successful guy with ladies (if anyone has read some of my advice posts...although I do acknowledge I still have a lot to learn!) and I was just flabbergasted with this.
I don't even know if this is a good thing or a bad thing. What would being sassy as a guy actually mean? Has anyone else ever had a girl say this to you?
No I am not homosexual or metrosexual or a feminine guy by the way for any trolls.
I continued to talk to them for about 10 more minutes then excused myself to check up on some tailgate logistics. I then proceeded to walk around and I see one of the girls from earlier standing alone so I went up to her and proceeded to flirt and exude my true personality. We were vibeing well and then at some point while I was teasing her by making fun of something she said, she told me I was sassy/I had some sass in a semi-flirty way.
Now I have never, ever had a girl say this to me and I can say that I am a fairly successful guy with ladies (if anyone has read some of my advice posts...although I do acknowledge I still have a lot to learn!) and I was just flabbergasted with this.
I don't even know if this is a good thing or a bad thing. What would being sassy as a guy actually mean? Has anyone else ever had a girl say this to you?
No I am not homosexual or metrosexual or a feminine guy by the way for any trolls.