"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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amnbyrd

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Alright I've been talking to this girl for bout a week now things are going great and shes completely into me. Well there's this guy she used to talk to and work with who still likes her and wont stop texting her and calling at her work. She said today that he's starting to scare her. Apparently she thought he was a good person or some sh!t though now she sees him for what he really is. Anyways I really don't know what to do about this. We've only been talking for a week though things are definitely evolving into a bf/gf relationship and possible ltr. Need input!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WesCottII

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We've only been talking for a week though things are definitely evolving into a bf/gf relationship and possible ltr
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What the hell is this doing here?

Anyways I really don't know what to do about this.
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Simple. You do nothing. I've yet to meet a girl that didn't have some kind of chump constantly texting her and so forth. Fact is, it's not your problem, don't get sucked into playing captain save-a-ho. She gets off on the attention or shed've done something about it herself. You just worry about your own behaviour, not some chumps.
 
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I agree with the above, you can also play along, ask her if you can talk to the guy so you can give him hints on how to get with her lol, that often makes her laugh and shows you're the **** and not worried at all (which you shouldn't be mate)
 
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"We've only been talking for a week though things are definitely evolving into a bf/gf relationship and possible ltr "

Don't jump ahead of yourself here just take it for what it is at the moment, you did say only a week you have known her for....
 
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