Guy Bugging Her?

[amnbyrd]

Alright I've been talking to this girl for bout a week now things are going great and shes completely into me. Well there's this guy she used to talk to and work with who still likes her and wont stop texting her and calling at her work. She said today that he's starting to scare her. Apparently she thought he was a good person or some sh!t though now she sees him for what he really is. Anyways I really don't know what to do about this. We've only been talking for a week though things are definitely evolving into a bf/gf relationship and possible ltr. Need input!

 

[WesCottII]

We've only been talking for a week though things are definitely evolving into a bf/gf relationship and possible ltr

What the hell is this doing here?

Anyways I really don't know what to do about this.

Simple. You do nothing. I've yet to meet a girl that didn't have some kind of chump constantly texting her and so forth. Fact is, it's not your problem, don't get sucked into playing captain save-a-ho. She gets off on the attention or shed've done something about it herself. You just worry about your own behaviour, not some chumps.

 

[Social Calibration]

I agree with the above, you can also play along, ask her if you can talk to the guy so you can give him hints on how to get with her lol, that often makes her laugh and shows you're the **** and not worried at all (which you shouldn't be mate)

 

[ljm]

"We've only been talking for a week though things are definitely evolving into a bf/gf relationship and possible ltr "

Don't jump ahead of yourself here just take it for what it is at the moment, you did say only a week you have known her for....