"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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guy approaching the wall, what da f?

pyros

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A few nights ago, I was in salsa club with some of my friends; we were talking about chicks, dancing etc, and then one of them went:

guy: "meh, I just want to find a chick, marry her etc, and forget about dancing and everything!"

What-da-fvck?? we have to keep in mind that this guy has been in the dancing scene for more than three years...and he goes to salsa clubs like two to three times each week, every week, so he is spending A TON OF TIME trying to find a girl. He is not bad looking, just normal, a bit beta but ok.

Anyway, this comment kind of shocked me. So he doesnt give a sh-it about dancing etc, but he's been doing it FOR MORE THAN THREE YEARS, and he just wants to find a woman and stop it completely, lmao. He's very honest, I have to admit that.

He's 31 I think, and its funy because he's thinking like a woman facing the Wall, but he's a man, wtf?

I go to salsa because 1 I Like the music, to dance etc, 2 because I meet chicks, but I am not looking for a wife LMAO, and we're the same age.


Thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Desdinova

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His goals are woman-centric. This is comparable to a man who works hard, saves up a ton of money, and buys a nice expensive car to attract women.

With that attitude, he'll likely end up divorced somewhere down the road. Once he uses his dance lessons to secure a wife, he'll quit doing what attracted her and become boring.
 
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