"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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guy approaching the wall, what da f?

pyros

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A few nights ago, I was in salsa club with some of my friends; we were talking about chicks, dancing etc, and then one of them went:

guy: "meh, I just want to find a chick, marry her etc, and forget about dancing and everything!"

What-da-fvck?? we have to keep in mind that this guy has been in the dancing scene for more than three years...and he goes to salsa clubs like two to three times each week, every week, so he is spending A TON OF TIME trying to find a girl. He is not bad looking, just normal, a bit beta but ok.

Anyway, this comment kind of shocked me. So he doesnt give a sh-it about dancing etc, but he's been doing it FOR MORE THAN THREE YEARS, and he just wants to find a woman and stop it completely, lmao. He's very honest, I have to admit that.

He's 31 I think, and its funy because he's thinking like a woman facing the Wall, but he's a man, wtf?

I go to salsa because 1 I Like the music, to dance etc, 2 because I meet chicks, but I am not looking for a wife LMAO, and we're the same age.


Thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Desdinova

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His goals are woman-centric. This is comparable to a man who works hard, saves up a ton of money, and buys a nice expensive car to attract women.

With that attitude, he'll likely end up divorced somewhere down the road. Once he uses his dance lessons to secure a wife, he'll quit doing what attracted her and become boring.
 
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