"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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guy approaching the wall, what da f?

pyros

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A few nights ago, I was in salsa club with some of my friends; we were talking about chicks, dancing etc, and then one of them went:

guy: "meh, I just want to find a chick, marry her etc, and forget about dancing and everything!"

What-da-fvck?? we have to keep in mind that this guy has been in the dancing scene for more than three years...and he goes to salsa clubs like two to three times each week, every week, so he is spending A TON OF TIME trying to find a girl. He is not bad looking, just normal, a bit beta but ok.

Anyway, this comment kind of shocked me. So he doesnt give a sh-it about dancing etc, but he's been doing it FOR MORE THAN THREE YEARS, and he just wants to find a woman and stop it completely, lmao. He's very honest, I have to admit that.

He's 31 I think, and its funy because he's thinking like a woman facing the Wall, but he's a man, wtf?

I go to salsa because 1 I Like the music, to dance etc, 2 because I meet chicks, but I am not looking for a wife LMAO, and we're the same age.


Thoughts?
 

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Desdinova

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His goals are woman-centric. This is comparable to a man who works hard, saves up a ton of money, and buys a nice expensive car to attract women.

With that attitude, he'll likely end up divorced somewhere down the road. Once he uses his dance lessons to secure a wife, he'll quit doing what attracted her and become boring.
 
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