“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I haven’t done one of these in a while. Kids, don't try this at home.

Tonight’s lucky girl: 28 yos, HB 8.5, 5’6”, approx. 115 lbs, Persian

I met her online on Match. Date scheduled for 8 p.m. I roll in fashionably late—the usual—at 8:30. This is a test of interest. Will she wait? I'm still in my work clothes: suit and tie. There she stands, hot, by the bar in a lounge staring at her phone. The lounge is overcrowded due to a party. I approach, introduce myself, and tell her let’s go somewhere else as it’s too crowded. She agrees. We exit and walk to my car, which is parked directly outside the lounge by valet. She now can see me clearly in the light. The infamous fluttering of the eyes, eyes wide open, smiling ear-to-ear begins. Here it is again. The all too familiar. Yes, the infamous signs of powerful animal attraction.

As I’m driving toward a new “destination,” I noticed I have just become the funniest man on Earth. Every joke I made was welcomed by an entourage of exaggerated laughs. So I think to myself, why bother with the drinks. Five minutes into my driving, at a red light, I grab her by the back of her hair firmly and start kissing her. She willingly submits and starts to become aggressive herself. So I pull over, and start making out. Ten minutes into it, I pull back, as if I am in deep thought.

“What is it?” she asks.

Guru: “Forget the drinks. Do you live alone?”

"Yes.”

Guru: “Ok, let's go hang out at your place. Where do you live?”

She tells me the address which is six blocks away. I park in the garage across the street. We go up to her apartment. She proceeds to pour a drink in the living room bar. I stop her, take her, and throw her lightly onto the sofa, where a heavy makeout session begins. After five minutes, I rip off her clothes, and then mine. I reach into my pant’s pockets for a condom, and bag it up. I don't bother to get her wet because I know she is already gushing. Without hesitation, I go in directly for the kill, as if we have done this 1000 times before already. I enter. Three minutes later, it is over. I get up, put on my clothes, finish the drink she was trying to prep, without a word kiss her on the forehead, and leave.

Total time from first meet to lay: 57 minutes

Total cost of the date: $45.50 (Valet, Garage, and Condom)

I just got a text from her: "Why did you leave so fast?" LOL

Ya … life sucks for us older DJs.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The following is not a personal attack on the OP, it is simply my opinion on the thread.....

Congrats on the lay and if you got what you wanted from the night, then fair play...

I can't help but think it reads very cold and clinical and well.....slightly boring. Almost like going for something to eat in a fast food restaurant. Almost like going to a prostitute....

47 dollars.....3 minutes. Then out of there.

Obviously the OP has a HUGE opinion of himself. And why not? What's wrong with self confidence and self esteem? Absolutely nothing. But where's the value brought? What's the point? 3 minutes?

I wonder if she had buyer's remorse. Who cares right.
 

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Thanks fellas, but once you are a couple hundred in, a lay is like brushing your teeth in the morning. No biggie.

The point of this thread outside of a good laugh was to demonstrate that once attraction is in place, there is very little a DJ must do except be present. Focus on becoming more physically attractive and less on the methods to manipulate attraction. Yes, I know common knowledge but good to keep at the mind's forefront.

Also to show that as a man ages, he does not lose anywhere as many options as a woman does. In my case, SMV today is at its highest, but it takes a lot of work especially as you get older. At least for me. Something to look forward to for you younger gents.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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guru1000 said:
As I’m driving toward a new “destination,” I noticed I have just become the funniest man on Earth. Every joke I made was welcomed by an entourage of exaggerated laughs. So I think to myself, why bother with the drinks. Five minutes into my driving, at a red light, I grab her by the back of her hair firmly and start kissing her. She willingly submits and starts to become aggressive herself. So I pull over, and start making out. Ten minutes into it, I pull back, as if I am in deep thought.

“What is it?” she asks.

Guru: “Forget the drinks. Do you live alone?”

"Yes.”

Guru: “Ok, let's go hang out at your place. Where do you live?”
"As if I am in deep thought"

One of the most legendary field reports I have ever read. Great demonstration of often overlooked DJ principles. Once you know she's into you, you don't have to try very hard. I'll remember that one Guru!
 

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Awesome post. This made my day. Boy if more shìt like this was posted here sosuave might return to actually being helpful. +1
 

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guru1000 said:
once attraction is in place, there is very little a DJ must do except be present.
This is a perfect description of the mindset. When an interaction is going perfectly, so smoothly that you quickly eradicate any ego or self-consciousness and strictly focus on entertaining yourself and having a good time, you just kind of feel like you're there and pretty much anything you do is the right move because you're acting from a position of power. YOU are doing what YOU want to do because that's just how you live. If people don't want to play into your reality, than you can't be bothered by them and could care less whether or not they f*ck off, regardless of how attractive or charismatic they are.

It's a frustratingly rare mindset to achieve. At least for me right now, but i have plenty of time. I find that especially when you're on a hot streak, you gain a shield to rejection and caring about the outcome and simply just have fun. Good post.
 

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Excellent report Guru. I know, you've said that you do not want to brag in another thread, but I feel that the more FRs the better, especially the good ones.

Looking forward to more reports.
 

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Reminds me of me the other week, meet to leaving her place was an hour and a half. More field reports like this and ones where you fück up are definitely needed. If you're SMV is peaking at 40, I'm 22 so I have a feeling that the next 10-15 years are going to be carnage. Any general recommendations?
 
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