Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yeah, they found the receipts in his backpack. They also found a letter. When he left the first scene he went back to his dorm room and got more ammo and then went to the second area. He lived in the dorms, but not the one where the first shooting took place.Francisco d'Anconia said:He was an English student at the school and was able to identify him from student records.
Here's something interesting , it's said that they found a receipt on him from a recent gun purchase.
Says a lot about society, doesn't it?PigAdlemPimp said:This proves that if a dude kills 32 others before himself he becomes an instant celebrity after his death, if he only kills himself no one outside of his own family and freinds will ever hear about it, within a couple of years a blockbuster movie will be made about this, there are no laws for people who are prepared to end their own lives, they can do whatever they wish to before they do that.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
you are right that AFCs would for the most part would just kill themselves. That happens a lot. But there are rare cases where the afc goes nuts and kills the girl too. You just don't hear about it unless many people die.Wyldfire said:AFCs are too considerate of other people to kill 32 people and then turn the gun on himself. An AFC would have just killed himself.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I talked with the person directly affected by this last night...and I have shown respect.Nighthawk said:Wyldfire show some of that respect you're preaching and don't troll this thread by suggesting anything on this site would encourage someone to go on a gun rampage.
Or did I miss the 'Why Hors Must Be Massacred' thread?
Yeah, but I don't think that is the case here. According to reports the shooter had some kind of criminal charges last month...not sure of the nature of them yet, though. He left a letter, but the nature of that hasn't come out yet either.00Kevin said:you are right that AFCs would for the most part would just kill themselves. That happens a lot. But there are rare cases where the afc goes nuts and kills the girl too. You just don't hear about it unless many people die.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've got to be f'n kidding me. You're trying to pin this on being DJ alpha?Wyldfire said:I honestly wouldn't be surprised if it came out that this guy had sites like this bookmarked on his computer.
See how people go right into blaming other groups or people, or guns or whatever? People need to STOP blaming and START having some damn personal responsibility and accountability.insanity said:wow how screwed up is the world getting. priests and child molestation, women teachers sleeping with students, school shootings, iraq war, racism, etc.
i was disguisted at some of my fellow canadians at the gym today watching the headline news about the shootings. they said "god america is screwed up". i'm glad i don't live down there. they said "they always make fun of us canadians but at least we don't go shooting up our schools and our teachers don't sleep with our students and i don't know why we followed the americans into the iraq war." i told them to shut the f@ck up. i said just a year ago a guy walked into a school in montreal and asked the men to leave the class and he murdered the women feminists in the class. don't be so stupid.
i played on xboxlive today and there was a few asian guys playing on the server and people brought up that it was an asian that shot up the schools and they deserve to all die and alot of people joined in. then one american guy said we should just drop a nuke on you guys again. and the asain guy said maybe we should get some of our kamakazi pilots to fly some planes into your buildings. then they booted the asian players out because it must have hit a nerve.
i am still moving to america because i still believe in the american dream. what we need is an alien invasion or some crap like that so that all of mankind can put their differences a side and unite. isn't there any good left in man.
This forum is sometimes used as an outlet to publish the anger of many AFCs. Would you rather them go out and shoot people? If anyone blames this forum or the people here for the actions of crazy murding AFCs then they are just idiots.Wyldfire said:Yeah, but I don't think that is the case here. According to reports the shooter had some kind of criminal charges last month...not sure of the nature of them yet, though. He left a letter, but the nature of that hasn't come out yet either.
I honestly wouldn't be surprised if it came out that this guy had sites like this bookmarked on his computer. I wish I could honestly say that I don't believe that. I've been saying for a long time that members here need to stop and think about who might be reading what they write when they let loose all the anger and bitter posts. I hope something positive can come out of this horrible tragedy...I really do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.