"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dannyme

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Guys, I just need to vent a little bit tonight.

The girl I'm seeing right now has a bf. She's in love with me. Her bf is now proposing to her. I'm feeling so guilty guys. Do I let her go? What do I do?

we've been going out for 6 months. What do I do? What is this I'm feeling?

Do I want a family and ask her to stay with me instead? damn. I have always wanted a family too.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Centaurion

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Wait a min.

You have been dating her for 6 months, and she's had a bf all through that period? And now she is getting engaged to him!!!!?????

AND YOU WANT TO MARRY HER!!!???

:eek:

Somebody needs to slap you really hard. Twice.
 
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dannyme

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I'm feeling real guilty dude.
I don't know what it is.

Or is there another term for "knowing that you may perhaps lose something and you want what you can't have."

I don't want to marry her. It's only been 6 months.
 
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Centaurion

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I don't care if you feel guilty or not. That's not the issue.

It' clear that this girl is as slutty as a slut can get. She's been dating you AND ANOTHER GUY THAT SHE'S GETTING ENGAGED TO!!!!!

Whats to say that she'll not ditch you in a heart beat when the oppertunity presents itself!?

There are tons of chicks around. Let this one go and find a real girl.
 
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spider_007

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guilt can be fixed only by reason & time (with me anyways)

find out what is really bugging you.
-is it seeing somebody you know starting a family and taking the first steps.
-is it that you'll be loosing a gurl who you didn't have in the first place
-is it guilt, or is it jalleousy?

once you find out whats "really" going on here, it'll take you matter of days to forget about it all....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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