"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dannyme

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Guys, I just need to vent a little bit tonight.

The girl I'm seeing right now has a bf. She's in love with me. Her bf is now proposing to her. I'm feeling so guilty guys. Do I let her go? What do I do?

we've been going out for 6 months. What do I do? What is this I'm feeling?

Do I want a family and ask her to stay with me instead? damn. I have always wanted a family too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Centaurion

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Wait a min.

You have been dating her for 6 months, and she's had a bf all through that period? And now she is getting engaged to him!!!!?????

AND YOU WANT TO MARRY HER!!!???

:eek:

Somebody needs to slap you really hard. Twice.
 
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I'm feeling real guilty dude.
I don't know what it is.

Or is there another term for "knowing that you may perhaps lose something and you want what you can't have."

I don't want to marry her. It's only been 6 months.
 
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Centaurion

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I don't care if you feel guilty or not. That's not the issue.

It' clear that this girl is as slutty as a slut can get. She's been dating you AND ANOTHER GUY THAT SHE'S GETTING ENGAGED TO!!!!!

Whats to say that she'll not ditch you in a heart beat when the oppertunity presents itself!?

There are tons of chicks around. Let this one go and find a real girl.
 
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spider_007

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guilt can be fixed only by reason & time (with me anyways)

find out what is really bugging you.
-is it seeing somebody you know starting a family and taking the first steps.
-is it that you'll be loosing a gurl who you didn't have in the first place
-is it guilt, or is it jalleousy?

once you find out whats "really" going on here, it'll take you matter of days to forget about it all....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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