"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Guilty

dannyme

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Guys, I just need to vent a little bit tonight.

The girl I'm seeing right now has a bf. She's in love with me. Her bf is now proposing to her. I'm feeling so guilty guys. Do I let her go? What do I do?

we've been going out for 6 months. What do I do? What is this I'm feeling?

Do I want a family and ask her to stay with me instead? damn. I have always wanted a family too.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Centaurion

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Wait a min.

You have been dating her for 6 months, and she's had a bf all through that period? And now she is getting engaged to him!!!!?????

AND YOU WANT TO MARRY HER!!!???

:eek:

Somebody needs to slap you really hard. Twice.
 

dannyme

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I'm feeling real guilty dude.
I don't know what it is.

Or is there another term for "knowing that you may perhaps lose something and you want what you can't have."

I don't want to marry her. It's only been 6 months.
 

Centaurion

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I don't care if you feel guilty or not. That's not the issue.

It' clear that this girl is as slutty as a slut can get. She's been dating you AND ANOTHER GUY THAT SHE'S GETTING ENGAGED TO!!!!!

Whats to say that she'll not ditch you in a heart beat when the oppertunity presents itself!?

There are tons of chicks around. Let this one go and find a real girl.
 

spider_007

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guilt can be fixed only by reason & time (with me anyways)

find out what is really bugging you.
-is it seeing somebody you know starting a family and taking the first steps.
-is it that you'll be loosing a gurl who you didn't have in the first place
-is it guilt, or is it jalleousy?

once you find out whats "really" going on here, it'll take you matter of days to forget about it all....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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