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Master Don Juan
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Guilty or Not Guilty?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Umm...do you live in fort collins? Cause that would be crazy if you did.
i just have to say.... that writer should be fired. after reading the first few paragraphs i had no clue what the hell was going on.
number one rule of journalism.... explain to your reader the background of what you are about to discuss.
this moron opens with a quote, which while providing some detail, isn't clear enough for the reader to understand what exactly happened.
as for guilty or not guilty.... no one has the right to kill someone else unless their own physical safety is in jeapordy.
number one rule of journalism.... explain to your reader the background of what you are about to discuss.
this moron opens with a quote, which while providing some detail, isn't clear enough for the reader to understand what exactly happened.
as for guilty or not guilty.... no one has the right to kill someone else unless their own physical safety is in jeapordy.