"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jonwon

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Mustache said:
That's Very odd

I woke up this morning more remorseful than ever

However, I remember that I had dreamed last night I was chasing chicks
In my dreams I am a player as I used to be before regretting

Mustache
I have an hard time trying to accept your genuine, sorry but this seems to be some wierd experiment in gaining attention from this site.

No idea why, you conducting research into the seduction community based on marriage and messed up stuff?

Or your fundimentally taking the pi**.

Or your genuine and in need of help, but its clear the help this forum can provide is only a small fraction of the true help you seem to need, not trying to be harsh but........... here are a few things.

(if this is genuine)
speak to your doctor ask about depression.
Seek a marriage counsellor.

Those would be a good start i think.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DevanE said:
Easier said than done.
Absolutely, it takes little effort to label yourself a victim of circumstance. In order to actually have a chance of any type of fulfillment a person has to be actively engaged, make choices, follow through and make the necessary adjustments.

You may not make the best choice the first time but it's all a learning experience. Being a victim only gains you the opportunity not to fail because you never actually made an valiant attempt.
 

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I am very thankful for all and also some masters DJ came here to help me

When I said "dreamed last night I was chasing chicks" I did not mean
that I am willing to look for chicks again

They simply come up in my dreams

Maybe I have this dreams because I invested many time and effort to acquire
and improve tecniques to get chicks and suddenly stopped because of remorse and regret

All that techniques were buried without explanation to myself

Or do I have a hidden jerk inside that had waited 38 years to escape ?

I am a bit confuse

Mustache
 

jonwon

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Mustache said:
I am very thankful for all and also some masters DJ came here to help me

When I said "dreamed last night I was chasing chicks" I did not mean
that I am willing to look for chicks again

They simply come up in my dreams

Maybe I have this dreams because I invested many time and effort to acquire
and improve tecniques to get chicks and suddenly stopped because of remorse and regret

All that techniques were buried without explanation to myself

Or do I have a hidden jerk inside that had waited 38 years to escape ?

I am a bit confuse

Mustache
think you need to get with the programme and sort out your marriage issues, then come out with some playa dribble.

this is least of your concerns, but i have given up on this thread now that last post finally did it for me sadly:

In closing:
You come on here and post a situation about your wife:
You pocket the thread with random nonsence about chasing women in dreams.
then you end it with:
Maybe I have this dreams because I invested many time and effort to acquire
and improve tecniques to get chicks and suddenly stopped because of remorse and regret.
Or do I have a hidden jerk inside that had waited 38 years to escape ?


sorry but this seems like a big venture in 'waste of time'.
 
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