"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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GUIDE TO BULKING UP

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Messarger said:
Use these ratios to set up your diet: EAT THIS AMOUNT OF CALORIES EVERY DAY WHETHER YOU LIFT OR NOT

Protein: 1.3-1.5g / # of body weight
Carbs: 2-3g/ # of body weight
Fat .33 - .5g / # of body weight

Notes:
Carb sources: Whole wheat bread, pasta, rice, potatoes, oatmeal, green vegetables, dextrose

Protein: whey powder, eggs, lean meats, fish, skim milk, lowfat cottage cheese

Fat: you'll probably get enough from the meats/eggs you eat, but supplement 1 TABLESPOON of FLAX OIL

Note: Keep fat intake to a minimum during this time. Whey protein is the desired protein source too due to its fast absorption by the body.

example:
Immediately post workout.
2 scoops whey
1 serving creatine transport + additional dextrose

1 hour post workout
2 scoops whey
2 potatoes

2 hours post workout
MRP
1 potato

3 hours post workout
regular meal (meats, eggs, etc..)
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I've recently started to read this Guide to Bulking Up, but there are some parts of this guide that i've tried to comprehend, but still dont understand what Diesel is trying to say.

1) What does he mean by:

Use these ratios to set up your diet: EAT THIS AMOUNT OF CALORIES EVERY DAY WHETHER YOU LIFT OR NOT

Protein: 1.3-1.5g / # of body weight
Carbs: 2-3g/ # of body weight
Fat .33 - .5g / # of body weight

First of all, i dont have a clue how to measure calories. Can anyone help me with this?

Secondly, what does Diesel mean by "Protein: 1.3-1.5 / # of body weight"? If it helps, by body weight is 60kg. Do i take 1.5 x 60kg = 90 of protien everday until i start to gain weight or bulk up?

Lastly, what exactly is whey protien that Diesel is talking about? Is it a supplement or can it be found in foods like chicken and fish?

Thanks.

Ignore this guide and search for the Idiots Guide to Growth, it'll answer all your questions
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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EFFORT said:
Ignore this guide and search for the Idiots Guide to Growth, it'll answer all your questions
Damn, that was rude.
 

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Yeah, I can see it now; we're going to start having guys jump into threads and tell people that they shouldn't read one person's thread and read their own. No reasons given, just do what they say. This place will never get over the hump of allowing guys to choose a method, style or skill that works best for them.
 

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EFFORT said:
Ignore this guide and search for the Idiots Guide to Growth, it'll answer all your questions
woops, my bad.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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well, diesel's not here to answer people's questions anymore -- and they ask quite a few (though usually by starting a new thread). messarger's questions on protein are directly answered by WBA's thread. they're also answered somewhere in these 15 pages of replies, but who's going to wade through it anymore?

and effort directed him to WBA's thread, not his own.
 

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I'm experimenting with working out my forearms twice a week now and I even increased my intake of whey to 2 scoops post workout and it is all helpful. I had family members complimenting me over how I looked buffer and all at a wedding (1st time I got compliments like that) and even my brother said my arms were becoming more defined so this thread has been helpful. oh yea, Francisco d' Anconia is a cool guy, dont talk bad about him.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Yeah, I can see it now; we're going to start having guys jump into threads and tell people that they shouldn't read one person's thread and read their own. No reasons given, just do what they say. This place will never get over the hump of allowing guys to choose a method, style or skill that works best for them.

Throttle pretty much said everything i was going to say. I have nothing against diesel, he knows his sh*t for sure, but the guide he put out isn't user friendly for newbies that have no idea how to construct a routine from the set numbers he outlined. The majority of guys here all have the same goal, add more muscle and lose fat. Guys are free to choose whatever method or style that they want to, but a lot of us have already wasted training years doing so and would like to save others time, money, frustration,etc. Theres no perfect style, but i'm positive the majority of the people here would do great on what Alex has in his guide, or on a modified Westside Barbell routine(my personal fav since everyone makes amazing progress with it), or Riptoe
 

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Deadlifts compress your spine. If you like walking and think you're going to see 60, avoid 'em.
 

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Fascism Fun said:
Deadlifts compress your spine. If you like walking and think you're going to see 60, avoid 'em.
That's bull. If you're deadlifting properly, there's nowt to worry about. Muscles ARE actually meant to be used ya know.

-shaun
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fascism Fun said:
Deadlifts compress your spine.
So does standing upright. Which I have been told is a tradition among many human cultures.
 

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Fascism Fun said:
Deadlifts compress your spine. If you like walking and think you're going to see 60, avoid 'em.
A Swedish study shows that sitting upright increases the force on the spine by 140 percent, compared with standing; slump, and that number rises to 185 percent.

Laughing and coughing increase pressure on the spine too.
 

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Ignore this guide and search for the Idiots Guide to Growth, it'll answer all your questions
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Originally Posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Damn, that was rude.

but somebody needed to say it.
This very same guide got me from 140 to 210 and I've only been lifting for 2 years
 

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Great. Thanks for posting this, by the way. Awhile ago I asked about a good bench routine, and the one you posted made me grow a lot, and very fast.

If you still have this bench workout, I would really like to see it. Thanks!:box:
 

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This post is a motivation for myself. The next time i review this thread, i will gain one kg.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Drum&Bass said:
This very same guide got me from 140 to 210 and I've only been lifting for 2 years
And you're working each muscle group 1 time per week?
 

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Why don't you just Message D&B? Btw Diesil isn't around to answer questions anymore
 

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What's an MRP? You listed it as something you eat, but I have no idea what it is.
 

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DIESEL said:
6. Train heavy - if you can do more than 8 reps it's too light, if you can't do 4 reps with good form it's too heavy.


14. Buy a little notebook and track your reps and sets.. each week try to do more weight and more reps. Once you hit the 8 reps you know it's time to up the weight.

15. After 8 weeks, TAKE ONE FULL WEEK OFF THE GYM. This will recharge your body and keep you from overtraining.

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DIESEL said:
the best parts.

INTENSITY AND PROGRESSION. LIFT MORE AND MORE AN ALL THE WAY 10000%!
WRITE IT DOWN.
HAVE A GOOD DIET
and rest a lot...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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