"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Guide to a successful "date"

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Man, this thread is OLD!

It has a reply from my old name... lol this is AGED!
 

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Haha, yeah, I just checked out the timestamp on the first post.

Still, it answers a lot of questions I hear from people time and again.

Petition for sticky?
 

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David D gives a good framework, and you then find what works for you. Tea or Coffee is the way to go. It requires less commitment, is a good way to spend little time/money to find out if you'd like to spend more time/money (lol, later down the road of course) with a girl.

David D has helped me complete that final puzzle that would've taken me years. Get the programs (just a handful) you think you need to work on the most, check them out, forget them, and live your life.

Good luck.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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hey i was just browsing on this site i havent been here in a while...anyone remember me??
bump!
 
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