"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Guide to a successful "date"

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Man, this thread is OLD!

It has a reply from my old name... lol this is AGED!
 

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Haha, yeah, I just checked out the timestamp on the first post.

Still, it answers a lot of questions I hear from people time and again.

Petition for sticky?
 

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David D gives a good framework, and you then find what works for you. Tea or Coffee is the way to go. It requires less commitment, is a good way to spend little time/money to find out if you'd like to spend more time/money (lol, later down the road of course) with a girl.

David D has helped me complete that final puzzle that would've taken me years. Get the programs (just a handful) you think you need to work on the most, check them out, forget them, and live your life.

Good luck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hey i was just browsing on this site i havent been here in a while...anyone remember me??
bump!
 
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