well hi to all, this is e_ze back from his 6 months away from this site, i must say its was going pretty good for the first maybe 3, but i noticed that they began to go alittle downhill later. For thoes of u that have left this site and come back, u prob know what im talking about!..........................................So Today i found my theory true, (witch i will talk about in a tread in the future) when i walked past these hyspanic gurls and said in english (not knowing they understood english) you 2 are fine,......guess what response i got....................they said, u dont look to bad cha self.......were am i going with this, ill let u all know soon enough....but i guess im just welcoming myself back and saying I LOVE ALL U GUYS, i think a happy loving mood is the best to be in! So I encouarge it!!!!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
You have incredibly not so good grammur.
Ace of Flames
Master Don Juan
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use sentences..... and paragraphs. they're nice.
anyway, welcome back i guess.
anyway, welcome back i guess.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
originaldj
Don Juan
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OH MY G-D I can't believe it's actually you. WOW. I'm speechless. Im just kidding I have no idea who you are and don't really care, Im just unbelievably bored.
the_reader
Don Juan
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lol agreed.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mr. Unique
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welcome back.