"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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S-lemond

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well hi to all, this is e_ze back from his 6 months away from this site, i must say its was going pretty good for the first maybe 3, but i noticed that they began to go alittle downhill later. For thoes of u that have left this site and come back, u prob know what im talking about!..........................................So Today i found my theory true, (witch i will talk about in a tread in the future) when i walked past these hyspanic gurls and said in english (not knowing they understood english) you 2 are fine,......guess what response i got....................they said, u dont look to bad cha self.......were am i going with this, ill let u all know soon enough....but i guess im just welcoming myself back and saying I LOVE ALL U GUYS, i think a happy loving mood is the best to be in! So I encouarge it!!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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S-lemond

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can i get this moved to the dj form
 

oakraiderz2

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You have incredibly not so good grammur.
 

S-lemond

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lol well i wouldnt say that i have not so good grammar, i would just say that i am very lazy!, but yea ill try and make it more readable for u guys...k
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vulture

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Originally posted by E_ze05
i found my theory true, (witch i will talk about in a tread in the future)
Can't wait to hear it. As well as your book on affection.
 

originaldj

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OH MY G-D I can't believe it's actually you. WOW. I'm speechless. Im just kidding I have no idea who you are and don't really care, Im just unbelievably bored.
 

dirtyvibe

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Originally posted by E_ze05
well hi to all, this is e_ze back from his 6 months away from this site, i must say its was going pretty good for the first maybe 3, but i noticed that they began to go alittle downhill later. For thoes of u that have left this site and come back, u prob know what im talking about!..........................................So Today i found my theory true, (witch i will talk about in a tread in the future) when i walked past these hyspanic gurls and said in english (not knowing they understood english) you 2 are fine,......guess what response i got....................they said, u dont look to bad cha self.......were am i going with this, ill let u all know soon enough....but i guess im just welcoming myself back and saying I LOVE ALL U GUYS, i think a happy loving mood is the best to be in! So I encouarge it!!!!
you're not eazy e he died of aids about 10 years ago. **** off
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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