"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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S-lemond

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well hi to all, this is e_ze back from his 6 months away from this site, i must say its was going pretty good for the first maybe 3, but i noticed that they began to go alittle downhill later. For thoes of u that have left this site and come back, u prob know what im talking about!..........................................So Today i found my theory true, (witch i will talk about in a tread in the future) when i walked past these hyspanic gurls and said in english (not knowing they understood english) you 2 are fine,......guess what response i got....................they said, u dont look to bad cha self.......were am i going with this, ill let u all know soon enough....but i guess im just welcoming myself back and saying I LOVE ALL U GUYS, i think a happy loving mood is the best to be in! So I encouarge it!!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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S-lemond

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can i get this moved to the dj form
 

oakraiderz2

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You have incredibly not so good grammur.
 

S-lemond

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lol well i wouldnt say that i have not so good grammar, i would just say that i am very lazy!, but yea ill try and make it more readable for u guys...k
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by E_ze05
i found my theory true, (witch i will talk about in a tread in the future)
Can't wait to hear it. As well as your book on affection.
 

originaldj

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OH MY G-D I can't believe it's actually you. WOW. I'm speechless. Im just kidding I have no idea who you are and don't really care, Im just unbelievably bored.
 

dirtyvibe

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Originally posted by E_ze05
well hi to all, this is e_ze back from his 6 months away from this site, i must say its was going pretty good for the first maybe 3, but i noticed that they began to go alittle downhill later. For thoes of u that have left this site and come back, u prob know what im talking about!..........................................So Today i found my theory true, (witch i will talk about in a tread in the future) when i walked past these hyspanic gurls and said in english (not knowing they understood english) you 2 are fine,......guess what response i got....................they said, u dont look to bad cha self.......were am i going with this, ill let u all know soon enough....but i guess im just welcoming myself back and saying I LOVE ALL U GUYS, i think a happy loving mood is the best to be in! So I encouarge it!!!!
you're not eazy e he died of aids about 10 years ago. **** off
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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