"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Grrrr... I wanna kill this prick

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Arite, some guy left a message on my ex's myspace saying, "hi, will you fukk me please?" then the next day: "apologies for the rude message...would you like to make love to me"?

I think he's some @ssho!e that she might have went to school with, I haven't said anything to her about it. I still have protective feelings for her, but no longer oneitus (i'm with another girl, good cure). But I was wondering should I say something to her - maybe let her know that the guy needs to watch out or he'll get his fukkin head kicked in. I hate that, so disrespectful. I looked at his profile, he is such a dirty little ****, the kind of guy you would love to just beat the crap out of. Or should I just say nothing?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The_Reaper said:
Arite, some guy left a message on my ex's myspace saying, "hi, will you fukk me please?" then the next day: "apologies for the rude message...would you like to make love to me"?

I think he's some @ssho!e that she might have went to school with, I haven't said anything to her about it. I still have protective feelings for her, but no longer oneitus (i'm with another girl, good cure). But I was wondering should I say something to her - maybe let her know that the guy needs to watch out or he'll get his fukkin head kicked in. I hate that, so disrespectful. I looked at his profile, he is such a dirty little ****, the kind of guy you would love to just beat the crap out of. Or should I just say nothing?
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you're obviously not over your ex, otherwise you wouldn't care - why is it any of your business what she's doing?

I'm sure she can handle a jerkoff like that, especially on myspace. If you feel the need to intervene then it's you that has the issues mate..

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say nothing...... Chances of guy meeting a girl through myspace are very slim. If she ain't over you and he kinda licks her ass about it, then it won't go anywhere either. But in any case, there is a reason they are called EX.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I can't actually believe your mad about this..do yourself right now and have a big laugh about this right now..(go ahead, i'll wait)


You done already? Take another.


Ok, that should be good. Now, if you've learned anything by being a PUA you cannot attract women that way. Think about it, you walk up to a chick in the mall and say "Will you **** me please?" She'll look at you look like "Do I really have to slap you?" Now, take another laugh break. That guy has no chance, another AFC who will be a 40 year old virgin. Damn, I should make a movie about that. Anyway, by saying nothing, you've just demonstrated higher social value than that AFC, congratulations.
 
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Allowing yourself to get upset over some childish comment like that would be dumb, regardless of your relatoinship status with her. The only thing that guy did was make himself look like an ass to everyone on myspace, think about it.

It's her problem, let her deal with it.
 
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Your ex apperantely wants attention and she's getting it from KWAFCs. Big deal.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wtf?!

Even if that was your CURRENT girlfriend you shouldn't be mad. Girls will get hit on accept that. ESPECIALLY on freakin' myspace, if a girl goes on it unless she is looking for a boyfriend she's an attention vvhore PERIOD!

You should be flattered, the girl you used to go out with just displayed pre-selection. Guys want her so she was hot.


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Man you come off as a weirdo. You wanna kill some guy who's leaving myspace messages for you ex? You need therapy, dude.
 
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You are correct, I want to beat him and beat him bad, I enjoy it, it gives me pleasure. I want to take a bath in his blood. I want to catch the tip of his nose with my fist and smash the bone into his fukking brain.
 
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Are you trying to get back together with her or something? Otherwise, you shouldn't care. You aren't her daddy or her family.

You have issues with possessiveness, and you should know that's a weakness, not a strength. Since you're only 20, you have time to possibly grow out of that, but you should start working on it right away.

Refocus on who you're going to game next.
 
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