"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Grrrr... I wanna kill this prick

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Arite, some guy left a message on my ex's myspace saying, "hi, will you fukk me please?" then the next day: "apologies for the rude message...would you like to make love to me"?

I think he's some @ssho!e that she might have went to school with, I haven't said anything to her about it. I still have protective feelings for her, but no longer oneitus (i'm with another girl, good cure). But I was wondering should I say something to her - maybe let her know that the guy needs to watch out or he'll get his fukkin head kicked in. I hate that, so disrespectful. I looked at his profile, he is such a dirty little ****, the kind of guy you would love to just beat the crap out of. Or should I just say nothing?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The_Reaper said:
Arite, some guy left a message on my ex's myspace saying, "hi, will you fukk me please?" then the next day: "apologies for the rude message...would you like to make love to me"?

I think he's some @ssho!e that she might have went to school with, I haven't said anything to her about it. I still have protective feelings for her, but no longer oneitus (i'm with another girl, good cure). But I was wondering should I say something to her - maybe let her know that the guy needs to watch out or he'll get his fukkin head kicked in. I hate that, so disrespectful. I looked at his profile, he is such a dirty little ****, the kind of guy you would love to just beat the crap out of. Or should I just say nothing?
you're obviously not over your ex, otherwise you wouldn't care - why is it any of your business what she's doing?

I'm sure she can handle a jerkoff like that, especially on myspace. If you feel the need to intervene then it's you that has the issues mate..

Agony Uncle Alex
 

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say nothing...... Chances of guy meeting a girl through myspace are very slim. If she ain't over you and he kinda licks her ass about it, then it won't go anywhere either. But in any case, there is a reason they are called EX.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I can't actually believe your mad about this..do yourself right now and have a big laugh about this right now..(go ahead, i'll wait)


You done already? Take another.


Ok, that should be good. Now, if you've learned anything by being a PUA you cannot attract women that way. Think about it, you walk up to a chick in the mall and say "Will you **** me please?" She'll look at you look like "Do I really have to slap you?" Now, take another laugh break. That guy has no chance, another AFC who will be a 40 year old virgin. Damn, I should make a movie about that. Anyway, by saying nothing, you've just demonstrated higher social value than that AFC, congratulations.
 

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Allowing yourself to get upset over some childish comment like that would be dumb, regardless of your relatoinship status with her. The only thing that guy did was make himself look like an ass to everyone on myspace, think about it.

It's her problem, let her deal with it.
 

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Your ex apperantely wants attention and she's getting it from KWAFCs. Big deal.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wtf?!

Even if that was your CURRENT girlfriend you shouldn't be mad. Girls will get hit on accept that. ESPECIALLY on freakin' myspace, if a girl goes on it unless she is looking for a boyfriend she's an attention vvhore PERIOD!

You should be flattered, the girl you used to go out with just displayed pre-selection. Guys want her so she was hot.


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Man you come off as a weirdo. You wanna kill some guy who's leaving myspace messages for you ex? You need therapy, dude.
 

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You are correct, I want to beat him and beat him bad, I enjoy it, it gives me pleasure. I want to take a bath in his blood. I want to catch the tip of his nose with my fist and smash the bone into his fukking brain.
 

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Are you trying to get back together with her or something? Otherwise, you shouldn't care. You aren't her daddy or her family.

You have issues with possessiveness, and you should know that's a weakness, not a strength. Since you're only 20, you have time to possibly grow out of that, but you should start working on it right away.

Refocus on who you're going to game next.
 
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