i've been talking and dating this girl for quite a while...2/3 weeks or so and well at first we hit it off very well. we have a myriad of things in common, she's beautiful and intelligent. keeper? not sure, but a great companion for now. but as of late she's been ultra flakey. never returns my calls-actually text messages me and tells me sorryshe didn't call back...? then she asks me if i'm busy later and i tell her no and that she should call me. i know i should call her, but it's really irritating, and i think she's either testing me for insecurities or blowing me off the nice way, which wouldn't be suprising cuz' she's very nice. anyway, what do you think i should do? ignore her til' she calls or shall i call her and let her know how i feel about her flakiness already?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
grrr...are all dames the same?
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