i've been talking and dating this girl for quite a while...2/3 weeks or so and well at first we hit it off very well. we have a myriad of things in common, she's beautiful and intelligent. keeper? not sure, but a great companion for now. but as of late she's been ultra flakey. never returns my calls-actually text messages me and tells me sorryshe didn't call back...? then she asks me if i'm busy later and i tell her no and that she should call me. i know i should call her, but it's really irritating, and i think she's either testing me for insecurities or blowing me off the nice way, which wouldn't be suprising cuz' she's very nice. anyway, what do you think i should do? ignore her til' she calls or shall i call her and let her know how i feel about her flakiness already?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
grrr...are all dames the same?
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