"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So Today I walk into this computer class seeing my friend and her (also her friend) talking about a guy she sees in the halls and they start talking soon as I walk in. I notice she is talking louder than normal. She makes a couple glances at me. Then when the teacher announce go to your computers she came a couple mins late and then chose the one next to me. I was breaking up with my girlfriend at that time. So she noticed that there was something wrong. She than goes "Whats wrong?" I go nothing just tired. Throughout the period she desperately tries to cheer me up and get me to talk to her. I don't know what she is thinking. Does she want me to get a reaction out of that other guy or is she testing me? After reading that It could mean that she wants me but it also sounds like I'm in the friends zone with her. Any thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sounds like she knows about it, and she might be pulling a joke, or more correct..a shattest.

You did the correct thing by not flooding your thoughts to her. For her actions, sounds like she's in to rub it in. Avoid her for a few days, you know that I know she knows about your breakup, and she'll keep trying.

And when you get back to talking to her, don't mention the subject, maintain control :)

--oh, good observation on voice volume.
 
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