"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So Today I walk into this computer class seeing my friend and her (also her friend) talking about a guy she sees in the halls and they start talking soon as I walk in. I notice she is talking louder than normal. She makes a couple glances at me. Then when the teacher announce go to your computers she came a couple mins late and then chose the one next to me. I was breaking up with my girlfriend at that time. So she noticed that there was something wrong. She than goes "Whats wrong?" I go nothing just tired. Throughout the period she desperately tries to cheer me up and get me to talk to her. I don't know what she is thinking. Does she want me to get a reaction out of that other guy or is she testing me? After reading that It could mean that she wants me but it also sounds like I'm in the friends zone with her. Any thoughts?
 

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sounds like she knows about it, and she might be pulling a joke, or more correct..a shattest.

You did the correct thing by not flooding your thoughts to her. For her actions, sounds like she's in to rub it in. Avoid her for a few days, you know that I know she knows about your breakup, and she'll keep trying.

And when you get back to talking to her, don't mention the subject, maintain control :)

--oh, good observation on voice volume.
 
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