"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Growing thick frizzy hair

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KillingTime

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If it's really thick and frizzy, nothing short of straightening will make it look like you want, sorry.
I have the most effed up hair, I grew it out for about 4 years... trust me, it never got better no matter how much I babied it.
Now that it's short it still drives me crazy and really ruins my look, this type of hair is a pain in the ass but oh well, gotta work with it.

You could just get a straightening iron, but doing that everyday will get really old after a while, plus you have to watch out for humidity/rain/sweat etc.... it gets really annoying.
 

SamePendo

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Damn that pubic hair of yours is out of control!
 

Layla

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Hey dont worry, if you grow it out long enough, it WILL calm down but it takes a while. My hair was also very thick and when you grow it long it goes through really messy phases.

Its still worth it though, and i miss mine. My damn school made me cut it
 

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You need to ask your barber to cut it a certain way. Your hair tends to grow in all directions in different rates. Therefore if you have a barber tell him that you want to grow you hair a certain way and he will make the neccessary ajustments so in a 3-4 months time your hair will grow the way you want it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Baruch

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Originally posted by DJDamage
You need to ask your barber to cut it a certain way. Your hair tends to grow in all directions in different rates. Therefore if you have a barber tell him that you want to grow you hair a certain way and he will make the neccessary ajustments so in a 3-4 months time your hair will grow the way you want it.
Thanks, sounds like an idea.

I do not have a barber though, used to go to great clips, but i am tired of the asian women that no speaky english and **** my hair up each time.
 
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