Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
At first I was like, thats the stupidest thing I've ever heard, but then I thought about it. Have you ever seen a cross country runner over 5'10"? I sure as hell haven't. lol!bob2007 said:I read that if ur under 16 and run a whole lot. It could hinder your growth. I think that may have hindered my growth a bit.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dude, thats cuz they're all black, duh. lol!The Sperminator said:Look at the olympic runners they are all really tall.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Genetic Recombination.sac_hot_male said:Is there any way you can grow taller?
I know genetic plays a big role in this but, is there any other way you can grow taller? I think drinking milk works too.
Any one know anything else?
Most black American people are not that tall. Tallest people come from the Dinaric Alps region (former Yugoslavia - Split through Podgorica), Eastern Baltics (Lithuania, Latvia, and Estonia), as well as a few Dinka tribes in Africa. The tallest Western Europeans are the Dutch, but they are slightly behind the groups mentioned above. Ever wonder why there are so many NBA basketball players from a place like Lithuania? There are only 3 million people in that country and many are not even ethnic Lithuanians. If you visit you will see the freakish height of many of the inhabitants.ValleyDJing said:Dude, thats cuz they're all black, duh. lol!
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
first and foremost, i'm not short...surprise (^_^)....i'm assuming that you know nothing about me so i'll give you a bit info...i been called HOT by chick including chick that i first met...Jlaix said:Hey sac-hot-male, your not so HOT afterall...huh?
Just deal with being a stump, get some therapy and go live in china, you'll fit right in.
Women hate short men, YOUR A STUMP.