Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
At first I was like, thats the stupidest thing I've ever heard, but then I thought about it. Have you ever seen a cross country runner over 5'10"? I sure as hell haven't. lol!bob2007 said:I read that if ur under 16 and run a whole lot. It could hinder your growth. I think that may have hindered my growth a bit.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dude, thats cuz they're all black, duh. lol!The Sperminator said:Look at the olympic runners they are all really tall.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Genetic Recombination.sac_hot_male said:Is there any way you can grow taller?
I know genetic plays a big role in this but, is there any other way you can grow taller? I think drinking milk works too.
Any one know anything else?
Most black American people are not that tall. Tallest people come from the Dinaric Alps region (former Yugoslavia - Split through Podgorica), Eastern Baltics (Lithuania, Latvia, and Estonia), as well as a few Dinka tribes in Africa. The tallest Western Europeans are the Dutch, but they are slightly behind the groups mentioned above. Ever wonder why there are so many NBA basketball players from a place like Lithuania? There are only 3 million people in that country and many are not even ethnic Lithuanians. If you visit you will see the freakish height of many of the inhabitants.ValleyDJing said:Dude, thats cuz they're all black, duh. lol!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
first and foremost, i'm not short...surprise (^_^)....i'm assuming that you know nothing about me so i'll give you a bit info...i been called HOT by chick including chick that i first met...Jlaix said:Hey sac-hot-male, your not so HOT afterall...huh?
Just deal with being a stump, get some therapy and go live in china, you'll fit right in.
Women hate short men, YOUR A STUMP.