SageOFAllenAge
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Ofcourse theyre bullsh|t, theyre an observation i made of all the (white) foreigners that came to my country
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Originally posted by *new*
another height thread..
anyhow, unlesss you are one in a million folks like described above you will not grow an inch after you hit 20-22 even sometimes 16-17... If you wanna make sure, you can go to a doctor, get xrays of your legs and check your growth plates. They will most likely be fused, if not,and if you are rich, you can get hgh..
(although 5'10 is a very good height i think, it will definitely not hinder your successs with the ladies.. ge fit and you got the game)
plus those statistics posted are kind of bullshyt, europeans are much taller(i mean white europeans, not italians, spaniards or greeks) even taller than most americans(again i mean white, most blacks i saw in america were taller while hispanics and asians shorter)In germany, holland and russia most times my head is looking up while talking to someone and I am 1.76(5'9") Plus chinese average 1.73, not likely. While I was doing college in the states most asians I saw was less than 1.70(5.7") .. If they do college in the states, I suppose they are the better off ones.165-167 I can believe not 3 inches taller
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.