Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
Hello, and welcome once again to my series "Grow Some Balls". This series is dedicated to bringing about and addressing issues and dumb notions that even some of the "best of the best" with women make.
This part of the series deals with allowing women to control us.
Now the first thing you're probably going to think is "Hah, women can't control me cuz I'm a DJ!" and other stuff like that. But.....think about this....
How many times have you been SCARED TO DEATH to approach a woman (this includes you, "DJ's"), because you were afraid of how she was going to react to your approach? How many of you were petrafied even when you have planned what you were going to say and exactly how you were going to say? You want to know why this is going on? It's because you're letting women's ACTIONS control you.
I remember back in the day when I saw a woman who I really wanted to meet, yet I just couldn't go up there and talk to her because I was afraid of how she was going to react if I walked up to her and started talking to her. She was CONTROLLING me. She had complete control over whether or not I walked up to her and approached her. If she wanted me to approach her, all she had to do was just smile and wave at me and I swear I would have done it.
Now I'm going to cover something else: Everytime a woman makes you feel a POWERFUL emotion, it's almost always intentional.
Anytime a woman makes you feel incredibly nervous or uncomfortable when talking to her, I can guarrantee you that it's usually intentional. Some women will put their b!tch sheilds up extremely fast depending on what DAY it is (yeah, it almost always has NOTHING to do with you) and there's nothing you can do about it but just put up with it. However, that's not an excuse not to go after what you want.
We hesitate to do ANYTHING we want because we're so concerned about what the woman is going to do once we do what it was we planned on doing. Thus, allowing the woman to control us.
Try this, instead of walking away feeling beat up that a woman gave you the cold shoulder, try BUSTING on her about it right then and there.
Try saying something like, "Hm, as much as women live on the phone these days, I'm SURE you can do a LITTLE more talking than this."
A woman may be giving you the cold shoulder also to TEST you. This happens ALL THE TIME.
You see, when we allow women to control us, we lose control of ourselves. Once we lose control of ourselves, we lose control of HER.
This part of the series deals with allowing women to control us.
Now the first thing you're probably going to think is "Hah, women can't control me cuz I'm a DJ!" and other stuff like that. But.....think about this....
How many times have you been SCARED TO DEATH to approach a woman (this includes you, "DJ's"), because you were afraid of how she was going to react to your approach? How many of you were petrafied even when you have planned what you were going to say and exactly how you were going to say? You want to know why this is going on? It's because you're letting women's ACTIONS control you.
I remember back in the day when I saw a woman who I really wanted to meet, yet I just couldn't go up there and talk to her because I was afraid of how she was going to react if I walked up to her and started talking to her. She was CONTROLLING me. She had complete control over whether or not I walked up to her and approached her. If she wanted me to approach her, all she had to do was just smile and wave at me and I swear I would have done it.
Now I'm going to cover something else: Everytime a woman makes you feel a POWERFUL emotion, it's almost always intentional.
Anytime a woman makes you feel incredibly nervous or uncomfortable when talking to her, I can guarrantee you that it's usually intentional. Some women will put their b!tch sheilds up extremely fast depending on what DAY it is (yeah, it almost always has NOTHING to do with you) and there's nothing you can do about it but just put up with it. However, that's not an excuse not to go after what you want.
We hesitate to do ANYTHING we want because we're so concerned about what the woman is going to do once we do what it was we planned on doing. Thus, allowing the woman to control us.
Try this, instead of walking away feeling beat up that a woman gave you the cold shoulder, try BUSTING on her about it right then and there.
Try saying something like, "Hm, as much as women live on the phone these days, I'm SURE you can do a LITTLE more talking than this."
A woman may be giving you the cold shoulder also to TEST you. This happens ALL THE TIME.
You see, when we allow women to control us, we lose control of ourselves. Once we lose control of ourselves, we lose control of HER.