Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do you guys go about approaching large groups in school? I'd like to approach a couple groups, but they're completely outside of my social circle and by doing so - I feel as if they wouldn't accept me and just see me as being weird.

What do you guys recommend?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Triple T

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uhhh, well its quite simple.
Expand your social circle.

Whenever I see a large group, I don't usually approach the group unless I know 1 or 2 people in the group.
Then i'll just be like "hey (friends name) hows it going!" Talk about something and then start talking to the rest of the group and their names and stuff.

Pretty simple if you have a friend or two in the group.
 

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I might come off a little weird approaching a group of random people. Best to know someone within the circle, and branch off from there.

If it's a group of random ladies though, just come in with a bold statement or question, and keep your focus on the big ugly ones. :thumbs up:
 

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other said:
How do you guys go about approaching large groups in school? I'd like to approach a couple groups, but they're completely outside of my social circle and by doing so - I feel as if they wouldn't accept me and just see me as being weird.

What do you guys recommend?
The problem isn't with the groups or your 'lack of knowledge on what to do'. The problem is with the fact that you see yourself as somebody who's weird and socially unacceptable. Until you can figure out why this is and focus your attention on figuring this out, no amount of anything from anyone will help you.
 
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