"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do you guys go about approaching large groups in school? I'd like to approach a couple groups, but they're completely outside of my social circle and by doing so - I feel as if they wouldn't accept me and just see me as being weird.

What do you guys recommend?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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uhhh, well its quite simple.
Expand your social circle.

Whenever I see a large group, I don't usually approach the group unless I know 1 or 2 people in the group.
Then i'll just be like "hey (friends name) hows it going!" Talk about something and then start talking to the rest of the group and their names and stuff.

Pretty simple if you have a friend or two in the group.
 

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I might come off a little weird approaching a group of random people. Best to know someone within the circle, and branch off from there.

If it's a group of random ladies though, just come in with a bold statement or question, and keep your focus on the big ugly ones. :thumbs up:
 

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other said:
How do you guys go about approaching large groups in school? I'd like to approach a couple groups, but they're completely outside of my social circle and by doing so - I feel as if they wouldn't accept me and just see me as being weird.

What do you guys recommend?
The problem isn't with the groups or your 'lack of knowledge on what to do'. The problem is with the fact that you see yourself as somebody who's weird and socially unacceptable. Until you can figure out why this is and focus your attention on figuring this out, no amount of anything from anyone will help you.
 
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