"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Groups of dancing girls?

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So, I've noticed a common phenomena at my college's parties: groups of girls dancing together. Is there a way to isolate one of these girls from their group and get them to start dancing with you then escalate it from there?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you might be able to isolate her but there is a very good chance that her friends will be coming after her and trying to drag her away. Its a jelousy thing ... thats why many guys love going to the club with wings. I have only been to a club 2 times but i have experienced this my self as well as read it on here. Thats why me and my friend help each other out ....
 
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lol, were you at the party with me yesterday? I mean literally I saw like 5 groups of dancing chicks and they all moved when a guy danced too near them.

Were you at UoC yesterday?

One girl usually doesnt like to dance with them and will invite you to get in the middle
 
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If you have the guts, go in between them but you have to be confident and biiiig smile, make sure they see you first, verry ****y and funny. 2 things can happen, 1 they love it and they start grinding you, 2 they look at you like you are crazy and walk away. I have had many good nights after trying this and also embarrasments. I didn't care much about the rejections because I was usually half drunk when I tried this. I also was a great dancer and a regular at the club.
 
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Mofongo said:
If you have the guts, go in between them but you have to be confident and biiiig smile, make sure they see you first, verry ****y and funny. 2 things can happen, 1 they love it and they start grinding you, 2 they look at you like you are crazy and walk away. I have had many good nights after trying this and also embarrasments. I didn't care much about the rejections because I was usually half drunk when I tried this. I also was a great dancer and a regular at the club.
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This works. It does take balls, but once you've done it, it puts you in this ballsy mood.

Oh, and here's the killer: take the girl's hand and spin her around on the floor. They'll go crazy for that one.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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