"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Groups of dancing girls?

BwanaKuu

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So, I've noticed a common phenomena at my college's parties: groups of girls dancing together. Is there a way to isolate one of these girls from their group and get them to start dancing with you then escalate it from there?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Prodigy746

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you might be able to isolate her but there is a very good chance that her friends will be coming after her and trying to drag her away. Its a jelousy thing ... thats why many guys love going to the club with wings. I have only been to a club 2 times but i have experienced this my self as well as read it on here. Thats why me and my friend help each other out ....
 

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lol, were you at the party with me yesterday? I mean literally I saw like 5 groups of dancing chicks and they all moved when a guy danced too near them.

Were you at UoC yesterday?

One girl usually doesnt like to dance with them and will invite you to get in the middle
 

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If you have the guts, go in between them but you have to be confident and biiiig smile, make sure they see you first, verry ****y and funny. 2 things can happen, 1 they love it and they start grinding you, 2 they look at you like you are crazy and walk away. I have had many good nights after trying this and also embarrasments. I didn't care much about the rejections because I was usually half drunk when I tried this. I also was a great dancer and a regular at the club.
 

Vice

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Mofongo said:
If you have the guts, go in between them but you have to be confident and biiiig smile, make sure they see you first, verry ****y and funny. 2 things can happen, 1 they love it and they start grinding you, 2 they look at you like you are crazy and walk away. I have had many good nights after trying this and also embarrasments. I didn't care much about the rejections because I was usually half drunk when I tried this. I also was a great dancer and a regular at the club.
This works. It does take balls, but once you've done it, it puts you in this ballsy mood.

Oh, and here's the killer: take the girl's hand and spin her around on the floor. They'll go crazy for that one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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