Mbuckets82
Don Juan
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- Sep 28, 2019
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Now I’m in this group thread with 5 friends who are dads and married. Recently my one buddy joined who knows of the guys but not really friends. I’ve known them all for 20 years.
This new guy is a big muscle guy and was talking about lifting with my other friend and somehow my name came up. Muscle guy calls me a bag bones and other friend said he’s got 5 pound weights for me and that his 5 year old son could help me lift them.
Now I’m not a lifter, I run about 25-30 miles a week and prefer body weight exercises. But as a result I’m skinny. 6’1 175.
i reply to my one friend, Your father. Then I say I didn’t say Your mom cuz she passed soMay she RIP.
Then my other friends say that was un called for I should apologize and that is a low blow. Mind you the guy it was directed at didn’t say **** till they all jumped down my throat....then he said it was a low blow.
After a week of not talking they get back on and still say I should apologize even after I said I meant nothing malicious by it. And I don’t apologize For anything if I know meant no harm. I am sorry they feel that way.
so he says nothing again after that but today gets on and claims he was busy but that if anyone else said it he’d be pissed but let it slide. Then thanked the other guys for coming to his defense. Saying it was a poor attempt by me at being funny.
Whatever happened to guys busting balls ?? That’s why I got friends. Not to walk on egg shells. I know they don’t mean harm.
Why jump on me? Makes me wonder. I’m def going radio silent. Sounds like I need a special before I send a text. No thanks.
This new guy is a big muscle guy and was talking about lifting with my other friend and somehow my name came up. Muscle guy calls me a bag bones and other friend said he’s got 5 pound weights for me and that his 5 year old son could help me lift them.
Now I’m not a lifter, I run about 25-30 miles a week and prefer body weight exercises. But as a result I’m skinny. 6’1 175.
i reply to my one friend, Your father. Then I say I didn’t say Your mom cuz she passed soMay she RIP.
Then my other friends say that was un called for I should apologize and that is a low blow. Mind you the guy it was directed at didn’t say **** till they all jumped down my throat....then he said it was a low blow.
After a week of not talking they get back on and still say I should apologize even after I said I meant nothing malicious by it. And I don’t apologize For anything if I know meant no harm. I am sorry they feel that way.
so he says nothing again after that but today gets on and claims he was busy but that if anyone else said it he’d be pissed but let it slide. Then thanked the other guys for coming to his defense. Saying it was a poor attempt by me at being funny.
Whatever happened to guys busting balls ?? That’s why I got friends. Not to walk on egg shells. I know they don’t mean harm.
Why jump on me? Makes me wonder. I’m def going radio silent. Sounds like I need a special before I send a text. No thanks.