This Times For Real
Don Juan
Hey. Im goin out with a group of enw friends here that are sort of popular. How can I be a fun person in this situation and not seem boring
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
by trying to imitate them in every way and being a sad lackey/hanger on.
By being yourself and having fun, they will see that you are a person capable of having fun and therefore a useful addition to them.
By being yourself and having fun, they will see that you are a person capable of having fun and therefore a useful addition to them.
Be cool and confident and don't really care what they think about you. If they give you a chance by yourself, just break off from the group for a sec and go start up a conversation with the hottest girl you see. Compliment her on something that you can relate to, and if you can do that those dewds will see you as a God and try to model themselves after you for having such balls. Remember though, a man doesn't need to prove himself to anyone.
This Times For Real
Don Juan
k ty was no problem. I guess everything really is all in your head.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This Times For Real
Don Juan
CoolOriginally posted by LikRetsam
When I grow up, I wanna be cool just like you.