"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This weekend i was up in boulder chill with a friend of miine. Him, his gf, some girl he knows and myself were in his girl friends room chilling smoking some bud (they were also doing lines, but im too good for that sh*t). So anyway i was jst sitting there and we were all talking and i thought to mysel "i feel like we need to have a group hug", but i was to high to say anything. Then my friend said the same thing, it was crazy. Ive never been in an enviornment where i wanted a group hug. The euphoric state of it all was pretty amazing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yeah the 60's are over man...didn't you get the memo?
 
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The point was that they were all cool, chill ass people. Ive never chilled with people that were actually smart and thought about the same **** i do.

yeah the 60's are over man...didn't you get the memo?
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Sure dood, tell that to boulder.
 
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so did you guys have a group hug and did it elevate to a full blown coked out orgy?
 
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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
The point was that they were all cool, chill ass people. Ive never chilled with people that were actually smart and thought about the same **** i do.
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"Cool" and "smart" and "doing lines of coke", do not go together.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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