"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Gross B!tches

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I went into a video store the other day, looking for some slasher film to pass a couple of hours that evening. I was strolling the isles of DVDs, and I notice this GASTROPOD of a chick eyeballing me. With silent digust I resumed my fvck-them-up-kill-them-all DVD search.

I strolled down the isles and, low and behold, the gastropod was always within eyeball range, occasionally smiling with her triple chins. She started playing with her hair when she came to the slasher isle that was adjacent to the slasher isle I was browsing at.

Not wanting to cause some awkward skidaddle, I moon-walked my way to the horror section FAR AWAY from her ass. But, surprise surprise, soon she was there too, within STROKING distance.

Quickly, I grabbed the nearest DVD (The Reanimator) because I could smell she was about to try some big-girl love on me, and I didn't want to awkwardly reject her.

So, how do you guys' feel about such encounters with ****ing ETs. How do you handle such blatant attention. (Mind you, I get laid every so often by FIT, CUTE girls, so I'm not a complete lard-magne; however these ETs fvck my head up.)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's too bad those fat, ugly, unattractive girls aren't hott... The world would be a better and easier place for us men.
 
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r0cky said:
I'm yet to understand the purpose of ugly women.
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They keep the ugly men who can't get pretty girls from causing wars out of frustration.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You have to let them down harshly because otherwise they tend to keep reframing what you say and persisting. If they are trying to strike up conversation (rather than just asking an honest question that you'd ask anyone, like in a video store 'where is the action section' e.g.) just say, slowly but forcefully, 'I am REALLY not interested' and turn back around.

Maybe it's a blow to their self-esteem... not my problem. Shouldn't be so damn persistent
 
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I make an effort to be friendly to everyone regardless of their appearance. There's nothing wrong with being friendly to an unattractive woman. Just don't ask her for her number. Women are usually too intimidated by attractive men to make the effort of asking for a number or date.

Social proof can be created anywhere at any time. That's a great reason to be friendly to everyone. The beached whale may have a sexy co-worker, and you'll stand a better chance of landing a date if you're friendly to both of them.
 
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Why are they always so confident though? Do they just feel like they have nothing to lose or what?
 
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i've learned that the best way to build character is to be honest and straightforward in all situations. Especially ones like these.

I used to pull girls fine but when ones i didn't like started to come in, i would be scared of hurting their feelings because i felt bad for them or other reasons.

You lose total control of the situation that way and end up running away. nothing wrong with being friendly but at the same time stand your ground and let her know you don't like her. You don't waste her time by leading her on but at the same time you're not putting her down either.

The girls actually see you as a man more this way and are more attracted but they also understand you're not interested.

Don't waste her time by leading her on and don't waste your time by jumping through hoops to avoid her.
 
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Desdinova said:
I make an effort to be friendly to everyone regardless of their appearance. There's nothing wrong with being friendly to an unattractive woman. Just don't ask her for her number. Women are usually too intimidated by attractive men to make the effort of asking for a number or date.

Social proof can be created anywhere at any time. That's a great reason to be friendly to everyone. The beached whale may have a sexy co-worker, and you'll stand a better chance of landing a date if you're friendly to both of them.
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Very good advice.........
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rhino22 said:
Why are they always so confident though? Do they just feel like they have nothing to lose or what?
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It's faked... they probably read some cosmo article that said 'guys like confident girls'. They always have articles about approaching guys.

It's like unattractive/male-attention starved girls acting extra slutty because they reason that guys will like 'sexual' behaviour
 
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Desdinova said:
I make an effort to be friendly to everyone regardless of their appearance. There's nothing wrong with being friendly to an unattractive woman. Just don't ask her for her number. Women are usually too intimidated by attractive men to make the effort of asking for a number or date.

Social proof can be created anywhere at any time. That's a great reason to be friendly to everyone. The beached whale may have a sexy co-worker, and you'll stand a better chance of landing a date if you're friendly to both of them.
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While deep down inside I know I deplore fat chicks, it never hurts to put a game face on. They probably have hot friends, and you never know who you might insult by being a ****. As someone who will be working closely with a university and a large number of students/faculty , I am trying not to get any negative press so early on in the game.

One thing I find about unattractive chicks is that they seldom approach me. Regular girls can and do on a semi frequent basis, but typically they have some confidence to back it up. Unattractive girls actually don't seem to like me much, but when I go out I have more of a jersey shore look ( am part Italian, spike my hair), so that turns a lot of folks off. Its actually a good filter for the fattys without having to even say anything.

One good example is a pretty ugly chick who wants to get with one of my friends pretty bad. She is younger than me, but I mistakenly identified her as a cougar - so not good. I have gotten quite good at reading both good and bad signals from women, and this one is just downright intimidated and doesn't like me. Whenever we go out as a group, I get that cold shoulder feeling from her. My guess is because I am always talking to better looking women and trying to get my boys to do the same :D

*note, this post makes me sound more arrogant than I am. But than again, maybe I am!
 
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