"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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grocery store opener

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This is an opener I have field tested this past week and the results have been good so far.

You see an HB looking at a grocery item. It could cheese, cereal, a stick of butter...it doesn't matter. As you casually walk by, say "You dont plan on buying that,do you." She will ask why not or something like that. At this point, you can pick up or point to an alternative item and recommend it for whatever reason. You can say that the product she is holding was featured on a 60 minutes (news magazine) special and is about to get recalled. There is a sale on SPAM in isle 3....you get the point.

I met an HB8 blonde doing this routine a couple of days ago and she was very receptive.

Me....You are not going to buy that cheese are you.

Her...I am trying a new Mexican dish and the recipe calls for cheese

Me..In that case, get the chedder instead. Chedder is better.

we both laugh. I see she has sushi in her cart.

Me..No cooking for me tonight ( as I point to my sushi).

Her...I have sushi too.....I like this kind (she shows sushi).

blah...blah...I get number.


I'll do some more testing....but I like it so far.

fan27
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by fan27
blah...blah...I get number.


I'll do some more testing....but I like it so far.

fan27
It's so easy sometimes...

All you have to do is talk about a bunch of meaningless stuff for a few minutes, so that she knows you're not a freak, and then you ask for her number. That's how all my cold approaches go... "blah, blah.. write down your number".
 

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Just in case anyone missed it

Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
It's so easy sometimes...

All you have to do is talk about a bunch of meaningless stuff for a few minutes, so that she knows you're not a freak, and then you ask for her number.
 

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This tip is wack.
 

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Originally posted by Engetsu
This tip is wack.
No. It makes perfect sense. You're just not in the field, so you wouldn't know. :rolleyes:


Good tip. :cool:


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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by ~JC Jedi 007~
No. It makes perfect sense. You're just not in the field, so you wouldn't know. :rolleyes:
Right. Thanks for the 411 on my life, Darth. I hope you use this tip at the next convention, commenting on how red lightsabers make a sound that is 2 dB higher than the blue ones...

I can't just leave this like this without looking like a troll, so I'll explain myself:

1- I believe this tip is way too plain, and does not elicit attraction in some sort.
2- There is no originality whatsoever about what is said, or the way it is said.
3- The only basis on which fan27 got the number was physical attraction.
 

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You don't ever need canned openers. Just make an observation on your surroundings or on her.

You can even open with something as crude as 'nice melons' if you're in the watermelon section. Just smile.
 

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Originally posted by Engetsu
1- I believe this tip is way too plain, and does not elicit attraction in some sort.
2- There is no originality whatsoever about what is said, or the way it is said.
3- The only basis on which fan27 got the number was physical attraction.
1)True. It is just a normal conversation, but that's all you need to be successful.

2)Do you need originality in a cold-approach? I would say no.

3)Physical attraction plays a part in every pick-up, but he got her number because he asked for it.
 

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Originally posted by Engetsu
Right. Thanks for the 411 on my life, Darth. I hope you use this tip at the next convention, commenting on how red lightsabers make a sound that is 2 dB higher than the blue ones...

I can't just leave this like this without looking like a troll, so I'll explain myself:

1- I believe this tip is way too plain, and does not elicit attraction in some sort.
2- There is no originality whatsoever about what is said, or the way it is said.
3- The only basis on which fan27 got the number was physical attraction.
1) Atleast it's something. What would you have done that would be better?

2) If a girl is attracted, has semi-high IL. It doesnt matter.

3) Physical attraction plays a big role. If not the biggest. That's why being a DJ (imo) revolves around self-improvment. Which includes Physical looks; improving one's health and looks, and style. looking sharp and clean. It's part of being a DJ.

Just my 2c.
 
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