"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gripz's road to Glory: Journey of a bum to high class player (Journal)

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Whatup SoSuave, Now's the time for self improvement. I created this journal as a way to look back at how I used to be, and to keep track of my improvement as a man as well as a Don Juan.


A little backstory: I just got dumped by the first girl I ever had sex with. Worst thing is, she never told me she dumped me. She just stopped talking to me. As of right now I'm done with the relationship sh!t and focusing on making bank. I don't know when the hell I'm ever gonna have sex again, but hey I never know.

My life right now? Currently I'm working at a grocery store as a cart pusher... (Yes, its pretty humiliating), I have no car, I live with my mother, I'm broke and I'm no longer attending college. You could say I'm low value. Great life eh? The only thing I got going for me is my looks and physique.


Things that I need to accomplish:


1. Get a damn car


2. Go back to school


4. Get a damn career


5. Move out



Also any lays I manage to get (Hopefully..) I'll make sure to tell you guys.
If anything significant happens in my life, be sure that you'll read it here first!


Without further or do... LETS DO THIS :box: :box:
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok, I'm always down to helping a brotha out. Dog your 22, Only had sex with one girl and your probably making around 10k a year. You have a lot of catching up and learning to do my friend.

You need to get another job. Pushing carts ain't gonna make you any type of money. If you have a license I suggest you work at a car dealership. Keeps you occupied with the hours and can make you a lot of money once you learn what you doing.

Listen to some of these podcasts. Changed my life.
www.macklessonsradio.com

Start with Episode #15- Value Yourself As A Man
Also where are you located at?
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Ok, I'm always down to helping a brotha out. Dog your 22, Only had sex with one girl and your probably making around 10k a year. You have a lot of catching up and learning to do my friend.

You need to get another job. Pushing carts ain't gonna make you any type of money. If you have a license I suggest you work at a car dealership. Keeps you occupied with the hours and can make you a lot of money once you learn what you doing.

Listen to some of these podcasts. Changed my life.
www.macklessonsradio.com

Start with Episode #15- Value Yourself As A Man
Also where are you located at?
Yeah man, pushing carts is not cutting it, everyday I feel humiliated. Can hardly afford to feed myself.

And I'm in Chicago by the way.
 

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Work at a dealership bro. Doesn't seem like your doing anything else with your time. You will make significantly more money and will learn how to talk to people and persuade them. If you can sell cars you can get bvtches. For me I knew I could get bvtches so I knew I could sale cars. 6 months and 50k and I had the money to get a spot in Atlanta and buy a 2013 8 cylinder chally. Now I'm using my degree and working corporate America.

Get you a gameplan and stick to it but you shouldn't be at no damn grocery store unless your content with the money and living with your moms.
 

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Update!

Ok, I haven't posted any updates in this journal yet so, here goes:


Just yesterday at my job I was told that my performance has been very sub-par. As a result I was suspended for 3 days from work. They told me that they would give me another shot next week, but if I don't perform my duties to their liking I would be out of a job. If I do get fired, part of me would be relieved because I really don't like this job, and the fact that I'm always picked on by the managers. My buddy told me I should work where he's at since they pay a lot more than I was making, so I think I'll apply there. Maybe even a few other places.


As for college, I'm still set on going back. What I really want is a career in the fitness industry, I'm in very good shape and know about exercise and diet. My plan is to get a personal training certificate. When that's done I'll probably continue school in another career whilst working as a trainer. I also have a huge passion for music, so that may be a side venture I may get into as soon as I get my equipment.


Concerning women, I really haven't spoken to any. Seriously, it's EXTREMELY difficult for me to meet women, let alone have sex with them seeing as my living situation is absolutely horrible,no friends I can go out with and no car either. I could explain everything that I'm going through, but it would be very long.


Well SoSuave, there you have it. I'll try to update more often, if anything worth mentioning happens. My life is pretty d@mn boring to be honest, so I really need to take action.

Until next time. Stay frosty SoSuave! :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Update! #2

What's up SoSuave! A recent development has occurred.


Just landed myself a job interview tomorrow morning, after I had responded to an ad on craigslist. Apparently, I would be working 6 days a week, 8 hours a day plus, commission. They told my they would explain the job more thoroughly when I come in to fill out the application. Hopefully, if I get this job I can finally get myself a vehicle and move out. Depends on the pay. Wish me luck. I'll definitely update you on the details tomorrow.



Stay frosty SoSuave
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Selling what?

Got no clue. Its some place where they sell, windows, sliding and doors. Don't know exactly what they want me to do, but they said they'll explain when I get there.
 
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