"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gripz's road to Glory: Journey of a bum to high class player (Journal)

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Whatup SoSuave, Now's the time for self improvement. I created this journal as a way to look back at how I used to be, and to keep track of my improvement as a man as well as a Don Juan.


A little backstory: I just got dumped by the first girl I ever had sex with. Worst thing is, she never told me she dumped me. She just stopped talking to me. As of right now I'm done with the relationship sh!t and focusing on making bank. I don't know when the hell I'm ever gonna have sex again, but hey I never know.

My life right now? Currently I'm working at a grocery store as a cart pusher... (Yes, its pretty humiliating), I have no car, I live with my mother, I'm broke and I'm no longer attending college. You could say I'm low value. Great life eh? The only thing I got going for me is my looks and physique.


Things that I need to accomplish:


1. Get a damn car


2. Go back to school


4. Get a damn career


5. Move out



Also any lays I manage to get (Hopefully..) I'll make sure to tell you guys.
If anything significant happens in my life, be sure that you'll read it here first!


Without further or do... LETS DO THIS :box: :box:
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok, I'm always down to helping a brotha out. Dog your 22, Only had sex with one girl and your probably making around 10k a year. You have a lot of catching up and learning to do my friend.

You need to get another job. Pushing carts ain't gonna make you any type of money. If you have a license I suggest you work at a car dealership. Keeps you occupied with the hours and can make you a lot of money once you learn what you doing.

Listen to some of these podcasts. Changed my life.
www.macklessonsradio.com

Start with Episode #15- Value Yourself As A Man
Also where are you located at?
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Ok, I'm always down to helping a brotha out. Dog your 22, Only had sex with one girl and your probably making around 10k a year. You have a lot of catching up and learning to do my friend.

You need to get another job. Pushing carts ain't gonna make you any type of money. If you have a license I suggest you work at a car dealership. Keeps you occupied with the hours and can make you a lot of money once you learn what you doing.

Listen to some of these podcasts. Changed my life.
www.macklessonsradio.com

Start with Episode #15- Value Yourself As A Man
Also where are you located at?
Yeah man, pushing carts is not cutting it, everyday I feel humiliated. Can hardly afford to feed myself.

And I'm in Chicago by the way.
 

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Work at a dealership bro. Doesn't seem like your doing anything else with your time. You will make significantly more money and will learn how to talk to people and persuade them. If you can sell cars you can get bvtches. For me I knew I could get bvtches so I knew I could sale cars. 6 months and 50k and I had the money to get a spot in Atlanta and buy a 2013 8 cylinder chally. Now I'm using my degree and working corporate America.

Get you a gameplan and stick to it but you shouldn't be at no damn grocery store unless your content with the money and living with your moms.
 

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Update!

Ok, I haven't posted any updates in this journal yet so, here goes:


Just yesterday at my job I was told that my performance has been very sub-par. As a result I was suspended for 3 days from work. They told me that they would give me another shot next week, but if I don't perform my duties to their liking I would be out of a job. If I do get fired, part of me would be relieved because I really don't like this job, and the fact that I'm always picked on by the managers. My buddy told me I should work where he's at since they pay a lot more than I was making, so I think I'll apply there. Maybe even a few other places.


As for college, I'm still set on going back. What I really want is a career in the fitness industry, I'm in very good shape and know about exercise and diet. My plan is to get a personal training certificate. When that's done I'll probably continue school in another career whilst working as a trainer. I also have a huge passion for music, so that may be a side venture I may get into as soon as I get my equipment.


Concerning women, I really haven't spoken to any. Seriously, it's EXTREMELY difficult for me to meet women, let alone have sex with them seeing as my living situation is absolutely horrible,no friends I can go out with and no car either. I could explain everything that I'm going through, but it would be very long.


Well SoSuave, there you have it. I'll try to update more often, if anything worth mentioning happens. My life is pretty d@mn boring to be honest, so I really need to take action.

Until next time. Stay frosty SoSuave! :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Update! #2

What's up SoSuave! A recent development has occurred.


Just landed myself a job interview tomorrow morning, after I had responded to an ad on craigslist. Apparently, I would be working 6 days a week, 8 hours a day plus, commission. They told my they would explain the job more thoroughly when I come in to fill out the application. Hopefully, if I get this job I can finally get myself a vehicle and move out. Depends on the pay. Wish me luck. I'll definitely update you on the details tomorrow.



Stay frosty SoSuave
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Selling what?

Got no clue. Its some place where they sell, windows, sliding and doors. Don't know exactly what they want me to do, but they said they'll explain when I get there.
 
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