"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Greetings

Sonny

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Hi all just saying hello to the board on my first post out of politness.
This looks like a great site with a mass of good and perhaps most importantly FREE advice.

I'm currently on a mission to improve myself in as many ways as I possibly can.
Things ain't so bad, but they could be a whole lot better and thats my ultimate goal, to be the MAN I know I am and put the self defeatist attitude to bed permanently.

Thats all I wan't to say for now. I'll be doing more reading then posting to be honest, but will contribute when and where I feel I have an opinion worth sharing.

Regards Sonny.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WestCoaster

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Read the DJ Bible, articles

Before asking for advice from RAFCs (reformed AFCS) and DJs-in-training like me on this board, I highly suggest going to the main page and reading as many articles as possible, especially the ones by Allen Thompson and Dana Peach.

Go to the "Hall of Fame" link and read the posts there.

Also, read the DJ Bible, it's great stuff.

It's easy to get suckered into the message board and seek help here. The best asset of this board is the DJ Bible and the articles, read, enjoy, and absorb.
 
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