"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hi all just saying hello to the board on my first post out of politness.
This looks like a great site with a mass of good and perhaps most importantly FREE advice.

I'm currently on a mission to improve myself in as many ways as I possibly can.
Things ain't so bad, but they could be a whole lot better and thats my ultimate goal, to be the MAN I know I am and put the self defeatist attitude to bed permanently.

Thats all I wan't to say for now. I'll be doing more reading then posting to be honest, but will contribute when and where I feel I have an opinion worth sharing.

Regards Sonny.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Read the DJ Bible, articles

Before asking for advice from RAFCs (reformed AFCS) and DJs-in-training like me on this board, I highly suggest going to the main page and reading as many articles as possible, especially the ones by Allen Thompson and Dana Peach.

Go to the "Hall of Fame" link and read the posts there.

Also, read the DJ Bible, it's great stuff.

It's easy to get suckered into the message board and seek help here. The best asset of this board is the DJ Bible and the articles, read, enjoy, and absorb.
 
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