Greetings from the New Guy

[Kerensky]

Hey everyone, I'm new.

I had what you all call "oneitis" for this girl. I know I'm probably never going to be over her, but I've tuned it down to say the least.

I'm just saying 'hi' to a great forum, bible, and from what I can see, mostly great people who can help and receive help from each others.

I guess I should start by posting my goals and stuff:

Health
- lower %bf to 10% and keep it there.
- bulk up to 155 lbs.

School
- develop good work ethic..
- no procrastination.
- be sociable with everyone including teachers.

Attitude
- I'm going for the humble confidence image. I know I've got it all, I just don't smear it in people's faces.
- Be kind to all who deserve it.
- Respect and be respected.
- Always stay positive, but not necessarily to the point of being disillusioned.

Girls
- Just be the best who I can be for myself.
- If a girl attracts me, go for her not too eagerly, but also don't get stuck in the friend zone.

Ok I might have missed some stuff, but I'm just doign this really fast. That's what I got from browsing a little and the bible. It is in order of importance. Yes, I know the site is about women and all, but I'm putting them last because I need to put myself first in things I do now. I read in a post somewhere that said, "if you can't take care of yourself, how can you take care of another person?" Good stuff. Once again hello to all and thanks for reading.

 

[defiancy]

Welcome aboard and hopefully you'll learn something here

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Welcome to the forum friend. I hope you do well on your mission to become a DJ.

good luck!

 

[earthshyne]

Welcome.

Originally posted by Kerensky

- Be kind to all who deserve it.

I think I know what you mean here, but for the purposes of clarification: Everyone deserves your kindness. If your kindness is betrayed (which will eventually happen, unfortunately), they will not be worthy of your attention.

Check your bf% issue too. I don't know your age or anything else (body type, especially) but there's a handy bf% guide here: http://www.healthchecksystems.com/bodyfat.htm.