"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don Juan
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Greetings Gentlemen,
I chose the screen name living-proof because if I could use game and have relationships work, then anyone could. I am not trying to become an Alpha, I am learning to do what, and who, I enjoy. I have been lurking since 05 and changing my point of view and my life.
For those who wonder if it can be done, I'm living-proof
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Many times I have seen other guys question whether DJ game is worth the effort, if the changes could be made and the desired results achieved. In 2002 I left a marriage where she controlled the frame 100% of the time. In 05 I was in an LTR that was headed the same way and I found this site. I started changing my understanding of how relationships worked and this led to a new understanding of cause and effect. Without this site and others like it, I would've been clueless and unhappy. My current relationship is challenging. My GF has accepted that I am still spinning plates. I defend my frame every other day, but I am getting what I want. I am thankful for every poster who has shared their ideas, wins, and losses.
 
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