"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don Juan
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Greetings Gentlemen,
I chose the screen name living-proof because if I could use game and have relationships work, then anyone could. I am not trying to become an Alpha, I am learning to do what, and who, I enjoy. I have been lurking since 05 and changing my point of view and my life.
For those who wonder if it can be done, I'm living-proof
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Many times I have seen other guys question whether DJ game is worth the effort, if the changes could be made and the desired results achieved. In 2002 I left a marriage where she controlled the frame 100% of the time. In 05 I was in an LTR that was headed the same way and I found this site. I started changing my understanding of how relationships worked and this led to a new understanding of cause and effect. Without this site and others like it, I would've been clueless and unhappy. My current relationship is challenging. My GF has accepted that I am still spinning plates. I defend my frame every other day, but I am getting what I want. I am thankful for every poster who has shared their ideas, wins, and losses.
 
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