"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Being_the_Don

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How many of you are approached or "noticed" by green card seekers? You might know the type: women who can barely speak the language, grin a lot and can't really carry on a conversation but are infatuated with any guy who they think can get them a longer stay in this country. Often they're in the early to mid 20s but can be older than that. I think they should be nexted. But how many of you guys give them the time of day? (And even hittin' that isn't really worth it when you consider their motives). And this is a variation of the standard gold digger except in this case it's about residence status.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kidfabulous said:
hahahaha. Awesome but totally random thread. I finally got my green card in the US after 6 years of waiting!

Yeah, it's partly tongue-in-cheek but I have thought about it. Like there are guys who can't get a woman here so they travel overseas to get a wife. Well you've also got women who come here either on a student visa, work visa, etc. but will come on to guys just because they're American. There are guys who want a woman so bad that they'll become involved with a woman who is only after him to get permanent residency status. These women are more aggressive then most other women because they've got a specific objective. So if a guy realizes this and STILL gets into a relationship with her doesn't it serve him right when she leaves him for someone else? So is it worth it? What does it say about these "relationships"?
 
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