"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How many of you are approached or "noticed" by green card seekers? You might know the type: women who can barely speak the language, grin a lot and can't really carry on a conversation but are infatuated with any guy who they think can get them a longer stay in this country. Often they're in the early to mid 20s but can be older than that. I think they should be nexted. But how many of you guys give them the time of day? (And even hittin' that isn't really worth it when you consider their motives). And this is a variation of the standard gold digger except in this case it's about residence status.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kidfabulous said:
hahahaha. Awesome but totally random thread. I finally got my green card in the US after 6 years of waiting!
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Yeah, it's partly tongue-in-cheek but I have thought about it. Like there are guys who can't get a woman here so they travel overseas to get a wife. Well you've also got women who come here either on a student visa, work visa, etc. but will come on to guys just because they're American. There are guys who want a woman so bad that they'll become involved with a woman who is only after him to get permanent residency status. These women are more aggressive then most other women because they've got a specific objective. So if a guy realizes this and STILL gets into a relationship with her doesn't it serve him right when she leaves him for someone else? So is it worth it? What does it say about these "relationships"?
 
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