Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Focus on the chicks.. fine.Strelok said:I heard the top dogs of euroland are considering to kick the Greece out of the euroland.
No big surprise that greek economy is so messed up, I read on the newspaper that there female unmarried relatives of municipal employee were entitled to some kind of salary and other stuff like that.
The gov employee were some kind of mafia and the gov was some kind of big octopus holding money everywhere, hope Im not confusing.
Sounds like the United States.Danger said:An economy mainly of distributors, but few producers.![]()
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I was being sarcastic. It is my opinion that this could end the euro.r0cky said:SLIGHTLY negative impact? Try 10% drop overnight, and further in the long term. The banks around the world are already slidding because of the probability of a Greek default.
Its a catch 22 situation, because if Greece decides to implement the emasures necessary to prevent a default, the country will go into a civil war.
The united states is estimated to have the energy equivalent of shale gas (Methane) to oil in Saudi Arabia. There is likely more. We are creating jobs in Pennsylvania, Louisiana, Texas to the tune of 30,000 + positions. We also have access to domestic petroleum products. Some estimate we can survive on what we have for hundreds of years. Even if our monetary system sucks ( which it does), the united states has enough energy for a long time. That counts for everything. It doesn't matter what happens to our stupid paper system, as long as we can keep the lights on, keep the planes in the air, we aren't going anywhere.Kerpal said:I sure hope you're right, but I don't have a lot of hope. I feel like this country is on its last legs economically.
His not right, he is a 'know all' on markets and trading, yet knows very little.Kerpal said:I sure hope you're right, but I don't have a lot of hope. I feel like this country is on its last legs economically.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hmmmmmmmmmm, so the US is in for a boom period, despite being the largest energy consumer bar none, with trillions of dollars of debt, fiscal contraction to come and monetary expansion already as far as it can go, yet peripheral Europe is in trouble?Julius_Seizeher said:You are so full of sh!t.
Here is why Greece is failing: they try to consume without producing.
But no man and no nation can consume that which they have not produced.
So now they are the first socialized european country to go begging for handouts. You can build a mountain of academic jargon to rationalize anything, but it doesn't change reality: you cannot consume that which has not been produced. A man and a nation can survive in only one of two ways: by means of its own independent effort or as a parasite fed by the effort of others.
Food does not fall into your mouth from clouds, gasoline does not flow in rivers to your backyard, and nuclear reactors do not grow like mushrooms in the forest. Production comes before distribution-or there is nothing to distribute.
Nope, we still make weapons for people to buy.Alle_Gory said:Sounds like the United States.
You mean like the United States. Most of the production is being outsourced. What remains is corn and some limited agriculture, movies and weapons.Julius_Seizeher said:Here is why Greece is failing: they try to consume without producing.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Gaucho said:What are you talking about?
CDS market are pricing in a high percentage of default. But this 'default' will only be technical in nature to ensure those who hold CDS are paid and hedging cover in such markets remain relevent.
This 'default' only being technical in nature, means whilst Moodys and the rating agencies will classify it as a default, it will only be an extension of maturities. I.e. the private sector will extend loans to Greece. It is already all factored in, no harm done.
The immediate harm is if the Greek government don't pass the austerity package this week, meanting the default won't be technical in nature, it will be full blown (yet no doubt short-term measures to fund the shortfall in Greek government liquidity will be bought forward by the EU and IMF anyways).
I actually think Mayweather is looking at this as a tune-up and is serious finally about making the Pac fight. Hopefully Mayweather doesn't look rusty and the fight is made, because other than an old, rusty Mayweather, Ortiz doesn't have a chance.StevieD said:What do you think of Mayweather vs Ortiz?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.